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“I was reading on your FB page about a post you had written about a year ago.
It was about a “narcissistic mother” that demanded honor from her daughter.
“When I started to try to figure out why I was such a mess, I found that one of the stumbling blocks in my way was that I was and had been willing to share the blame for everything that happened to me.
There is a chain of events when a child is damaged.
There are consequences to the messages that children hear and accept as the truth when For example, my willingness to believe that if I were not so “needy” in the first place that I would not have been neglected.
When I talk about my willingness to share the blame for the treatment that I received I am talking about specific things that should never have happened to a child that I was willing to actually take a share of the blame for.
I was willing to share the blame for things that happened to me when I was powerless over my circumstances; things that I convinced myself that I was NOT actually powerless over.